一、不忘人恩,不念人过,不思人非,不计人怨。心宽一分云消雾散,让人一步晴空万里;一生只谈三次恋爱最好;一次懵懂,一次刻骨,一次一生。接纳最真实的自己,先变成自己喜欢的自己,再遇见一个无须取悦的人。
Don'tforgetpeople'skindness,don'tmisspeople'smistakes,don'tmisspeople'scriticisms,don'tcareaboutpeople'scomplaints.Oneminuteofbroadnessofheartclearsawaymistandmakespeopleclearskyonestepatatime;itisbesttotalkaboutloveonlythreetimesinone'slife;one'signorance,one'scarving,one'swholelife.Acceptthemostauthenticself,firstbecomewhatyoulike,andthenmeetapersonwhoneedsnopleasure.
二、没有人见过深海鱼流眼泪,就以为它不会悲伤,那是因为它生活在深深的海底,它的眼泪,人们看不到而已。信仰是寻找一个积极的目标,信念是笃定一个前行的方向,信心是植入一个奋斗的胚芽,信诺是坚守一个做人的底线。
Noonehaseverseenadeep-seafishshedtearsandthoughtthatitwouldnotbesad,becauseitlivesinthedeepseabed,anditstearsareinvisibletopeople.Beliefistofindapositivegoal,faithistosetadirectionforthefuture,confidenceistoimplantagermofstruggle,faithistoadheretothebottomlineofalife.
三、如果生活和你想象的不一样,希望你有重头再来的勇气。我喜欢你,就像月亮追赶太阳的步伐,永不停歇。就像河水向东流的命运,天生注定。没有谁是因为一时冲动离开你的,你看见的只是它崩溃的那个瞬间,爱是积累来的,不爱了也是。
Iflifeisdifferentfromwhatyouimagine,Ihopeyouhavethecouragetocomebackagain.Ilikeyou,justlikethemooncatchingupwiththesun,neverstopping.Likethefateoftheriverflowingeastward,itisdestinedbynature.Nooneleavesyouonimpulse.Whatyouseeisjustthemomentwhenitcollapses.Loveisaccumulatedandnotloved.
四、逆境时,抬头是一种韧劲!顺境时,低头是一种冷静!位卑时,抬头是一种骨气!位高时,低头是一种谦逊!失意时,抬头是一种自信!得理时,低头是一种宽容。Inadversity,lookingupisakindoftenacity!Ingoodtimes,bowingyourheadisakindofcalmness!Whenyouareinalowposition,raisingyourheadisakindofbackbone!Whenyouareinahighposition,bowingyourheadisakindofhumility!Whenfrustrated,lookingupisakindofself-confidence!Whenjustified,bowingisakindoftolerance.
五、爱总是会使我们有太多期许:希望长久,希望不会分离,希望占有和实现。而最终只是觉得有些许厌倦,不知道该往哪里去。爱情就是这样,有些人会慢慢遗落在岁月的风尘里,哭过,笑过,吵过,闹过,再恋恋不舍也都只是曾经。
Lovealwaysmakesushavetoomanyexpectations:hopeforalongtime,hopewillnotbeseparated,hopepossessionandrealization.Intheend,Ijustfeelalittletiredanddon'tknowwheretogo.Loveislikethis,somepeoplewillbeslowlyleftinthedustoftheyears,crying,laughing,quarrelling,andreluctanttopartwithisonlyonce.
Therearenotsomanygiftsintheworld.Excellentpeoplealwaysstrivetocrossmountainsandridges.Youshouldknowthatthelastthingthatmakesyoustandoutisperseverance,realperseverance,andtimewillsee.
七、人生无完美,曲折亦风景。别把失去看得过重,放弃是另一种拥有、领悟,相信属于你的风景就在下一个拐弯处。别人过得好,就过得好,你无须羡慕。你只要确定自己也过得不错就行了。难道非要看着别人都过得比你惨,才高兴吗?
八、人生不管有多么迷茫,或许记得,或许遗忘,我们都不能在回忆里徘徊,未来一定会有份温柔的目光锁定你。我们前进的动力,其实不在别处,全在自己。态度决定一切,实力捍卫尊严!就算跌倒,也要豪迈的笑。早安!Nomatterhowconfusedlifeis,mayberemember,maybeforget,wecannotwanderinthememory,thefuturewillhaveagentleeyestolockyouin.Infact,thedrivingforceforourprogressisnotelsewhere,butinourselves.Attitudedecideseverything,strengthdefendsdignity!Evenifyoufalldown,youshouldlaughbravely.Goodmorning!
九、友情一旦消失承诺就是一张白纸,记得别把朋友当做假想敌你们不是敌人。就算伤口再小,别人也不能随便触碰…因为那个伤口有多深有多疼,只有本人才知道。Oncefriendshipdisappears,commitmentisablanksheetofpaper.Remembernottoregardfriendsasimaginaryenemies.Youarenotenemies.Evenifthewoundissmall,noonecantouchitcasually.BecauseonlyIknowhowdeepandpainfulthewoundis.
十、如果谁让你觉得你不值得拥有你想要的,别理他。这个世界又不止他一个男人,你又何苦抱着那个不爱你的男人,自寻死路。Ifsomeonemakesyouthinkyoudon'tdeservewhatyouwant,ignorehim.Thisworldisnotonlyaman,whydoyouhugthatmanwhodoesnotloveyou,andfindyourownwaytodeath
十二、并不是所有的痛,都可以呐喊,也不是所有的爱,都可以表白,不要过分展现你的悲伤,因为,谁都没有比谁生活得容易。因为生性敏感也玻璃心,想得太多不够洒脱,所以活得这么难过怪不了谁。Notallpain,cancry,notalllove,canbeexpressed,donotover-showyoursadness,becausenooneiseasierthanwholives.Becauseofthesensitivenatureandglassheart,thinkingtoomuchisnotfreeandeasyenough,sonoonecanblameforlivingsosadly.
十三、你变了,我也变了,回不去的温柔,泪水如泉涌,最熟悉的变得最令我心痛。有时候,明明心如刀割,却要灿烂的微笑,明明很脆弱,却表现的如此坚强,明明受了委屈还得强颜欢笑,眼泪在眼里打转,却告诉每个人我很好。Youhavechanged,Ihavealsochanged,cannotgobacktothegentle,tearslikesprings,themostfamiliarbecomethemostpainful.Sometimes,clear-mindedasaknife,buttobrilliantsmile,clearlyveryfragile,butshowsostrong,clearlysufferedgrievancesalsoforcedtosmile,tearsintheeyes,buttelleveryoneIamgood.
十六、我曾经希望有朝一日,再努力一点,也可成为一个有为的青年。却是不料到今时今日,还是一直在人海中漂流。到底,什么才是一般人生命中的无法跨越的鸿沟?真的是希望越大、失望就会越大的吗?Iusedtohopethatoneday,withalittlemoreeffort,Icouldbecomeapromisingyoungman.Butitisunexpectedthattoday,orhasbeendriftinginthesea.Afterall,whatistheinsurmountablegapinthelivesofordinarypeopleIsittruethatthegreaterthehope,thegreaterthedisappointment
十七、我们一生要走很多路,有笔直平坦的大道,也有蜿蜒起伏的羊肠小道;我们走过繁华也会经历荒凉。无论怎样路都要自己走,苦也要自己尝,没有谁能替你,也没有谁能一直依赖。Wehavetowalkmanyroadsinourlife,includingstraightandflatroadsandwindinglanesofsheep'sintestines;whenwewalkthroughprosperity,wewillexperiencedesolation.Nomatterwhatwayyougo,youhavetotastethebitternessyourself.Noonecanreplaceyou,andnoonecanalwaysrelyonyou.
十八、常常听人说:爱情会把人掏空。这在遭遇挫折的时候好像尤其如此,倾心相爱的那个人离你而去了,你会顿时感到万念俱灰。可是,我知道,只要你曾用真心去爱,爱的收获就必定会以某种方式保藏在你的心中,当岁月渐渐抚平了创伤,你就会发现最主要的珍宝并未丢失。Itisoftensaidthatloveemptiespeople.Thisseemstobeespeciallytrueintimesofsetbacks.Whenthepersonyouloveleavesyou,yousuddenlyfeeldespaired.However,Iknowthataslongasyouhavelovedwithyourheart,theharvestoflovewillsurelybestoredinyourheartinsomeway.Whentheyearsgraduallyhealthewounds,youwillfindthatthemostimportanttreasurehasnotbeenlost.
二十、但其实最最最伤人的话是什么都没说,用冷暴力处理彼此之间的感情,我们可以想象一下,如果一个人连一句话都不愿意和你说,连伤害你都不愿意伤害你,那一定就是不爱了。为什么要选择逃避,为什么要狠心割舍这段感情?多想我们能够在努力争取一下,或许就会有好的结果。Butinfact,themosthurtfulwordsarenothingtosay,withcoldviolencetodealwitheachother'sfeelings,wecanimaginethatifapersonisnotwillingtosayawordtoyou,evenhurtyouarenotwillingtohurtyou,itmustbelove.Whyshouldwechoosetoescape,whyshouldweseverelyabandonthisrelationshipIfwethinkwecanfighthard,maybewewillgetgoodresults.